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Originally Posted by BlueInanna
Sounds like you would be fine & pretty confidant in who you are. I really like my alone time, a lot. Don't need to give in to the social pressures and I think you know that. Keep being who you are, you don't have to have the same values as the status quo. In fact in makes you more unique & interesting. And if someone comes along who can be a real friend, enjoy. If not, continue to enjoy your hobbies, hikes, & "you" time. Hanging out here is good, no pressure, no need to get too intimate, but have some folks to talk to when you feel like it.
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Thank you! I was watching a doctor on TV (Amend, I think) saying I'd live longer with a partner--I fully expect to live to 95. I just hope I still know who
I am.

It's no wonder all those people, denying reality and compromising their values to make sure they never have to be alone, want to put pressure on the rest of us to be like them--validates their insecurities.