Just peeping in...

I want to say, LMo, I completely agree. Just because a woman kisses or has sex on the first date doesn't mean she doesn't have a lot of self-respect.

I'm also sick of the double-standard. I don't encourage one to be promiscuous (especially with the diseases out there), but I don't think promiscuous people (male and female) are "bad" or should be changed. I wouldn't avoid friendship wiht someone based on their sexual activity, unless they were having sex with my guy.