Maybe it's just me, but it seems like nothing drives away a guy faster than sharing feelings. It just seems that you're better off always answering "I'm fine" when they ask how you are (or even "I'm great!") and just talking about how you feel with your friends. Maybe a guy cares and wants to know how a girl feels several months into the relationship, but they certainly don't on the first date. And probably not for the second, third, etc. All I've heard is you're not supposed to say anything remotely negative on dates. I guess we're supposed to just be 100% perfect in every way in order to get a second date (or a third date).