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Old Feb 04, 2014, 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by peaches100 View Post
I'd like to ask a question. . .

Have any of you had the experience of giving your t gifts and tokens of affection or appreciation, but not getting anything back from them? If so, does it matter to you? Does it make you feel bad or wonder if your t cares about you as much as you do about her?
I'm so sure my T does not care about me as much as I do about him that I *barely* even wonder about it. He seems well adjusted, has friends, family, hobbies and other clients I'm sure he's also close to, so the odds he's thinking about me all the time are pretty low; he's pretty central in my life though. I do feel like he genuinely cares about me, just not to the same extent and I think that's got to be normal given the circumstances.

I've given small gifts and not received one in return. I've never expected a gift from my T so it didn't cross my mind I guess. Part of me does wish he would give me things and be more, but I know that's all fantasy.