YOU are WELCOME..... for I too find it easier (at times) to dwell on the negative and forget the vast amount of good.

If I may? - Please look into reading a book that has greatly helped me: Feelings Buried Alive Never Die - for both you and your husband, even the kids can learn from it.

LINK: http://psychcentral.com/reviews/show...oduct/74/cat/5

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

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