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Old Feb 05, 2014, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted by peaches100 View Post
I'd like to ask a question. . .

Have any of you had the experience of giving your t gifts and tokens of affection or appreciation, but not getting anything back from them? If so, does it matter to you? Does it make you feel bad or wonder if your t cares about you as much as you do about her?
Do we really care about our Ts? Could we really? We know them only in the roles of our Ts (ppl who listen, don't judge and hopefully sometimes even help us/make us feel better)- session is like 50 min of me-me-me time. I think that a great deal of our care/love (whatever) is projected (and conditional). So yeah in a way I think Ts actually care more about us than we do about them.
Thanks for this!
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