My man and I have been together for 15 months, living together for five months. We haven't had sex in six months. It seems to coincide with a massive breakdown I had six months ago, that I'm still struggling through, but I'm not sure that's the problem.

He has admitted that his parents spoke about sex like it was dirty and shameful. They even slept in separate beds. I think this plays into the situation a lot.

I'm 39 and he's 57. He has Viagra but refuses to use it. We don't even cuddle anymore and rarely kiss or hold hands.

I've talked to him many times about this, but nothing changes. I'm at my wit's end. Any advice?

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