Although I've never personally tried to meet a romantic partner online, the stories above prove that you can still find decent people online. Stay away from it's just lunch. I heard nothing but bad things about that site.

Try meetup.com. It's free to join, and you can meet a lot of people at once in a group! Plus, no one can lie about how they look! Online, anyone can do that, and they often do. Not everyone does that, but a lot of people do. There are also a lot of men on those sites who are players.

They'll send out a ton of messages to women and they'll be really good at telling them what they want to hear. So be careful and check a guy out before taking what he says at face value. If he refuses to give you his phone number, email, address, and last name, delete him and move on as he's probably hiding something like a wife or g.f. Also, if a guy pressures you into sending racy photos to soon, or sex, again, delete him and move on.

Google tricks online players use and you'll be able to spot them a mile away! There are some good people out there, but they're hard to find!