You are likely to get asked detailed questions again. You can choose not to answer or not to go into detail. That's definitely your choice, but fully expect that it will happen again.

I think it's GREAT that he asked you if you were seeing a trauma specialist. He is showing his concern for your well being and to gauge what type of support structure you have. It's better for you Pdoc to know more, not less, so they can do the best they can to help you.

It's too bad about the billing issue. I really hope you weren't looking for a reason to leave because I anticipate you will have to face these same issues with another Pdoc.

I was asked extensive questions in a pre-Pdoc intake evaluation and again later when I was considering therapy associated with my Pdoc's office. They were very direct questions and they requested nitty gritty details. Just be prepared for that.

I hope you find someone who you feel comfortable with and with whom you can put up some boundaries, if you need to.