If you really want her. Go for it. Forget the other person, if it is real love (and only if its real love)-no one should stand in your way. Also, sorry guys, but to think waiting it out and just being a friend while her indecision runs rampant, is a waste of his time. She will not leave the boyf and he will move into the friends zone for good or worse. At fourteen, i have to wonder if this is really love- but hey after that twilight crap, it's no wonder everyone thinks a teen can be in love.

Just be sure, if you get her it is for the right reasons, not some ego boost that is all for the thrill of the chase. Finally, remember, if it is meant to be- it will be. Somehow...