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Originally Posted by Hoppery
I'm not saying that I won't ever talk verbally much to his face. All I'm saying is, it's too soon for that. 18th Feb is only our third appointment. Maybe if I didn't have aspergers, I could do face to face verbal contact so soon. But whether I like it or not, I have aspergers. So I have to take things painfully slow to avoid what has happened in every other professional relationship.
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It is okay to take it slow. That is the best way to go.
My psychiatrist lets me send email. She permits this, because I communicate much more effectively through writing. It has helped me share my story and connect with her. Without email, I would have never been able to do that. It is also teaching me how to express myself verbally, because we discuss them.
I have Asperger's so I am very aware of the communication difficulties, and all the misunderstanding and judgement that comes with it. I often miss nonverbal cues that most people can pick up easily. This can be really confusing, especially when I am getting to know somebody. Usually I need to ask what I can and cannot do. If I don't I rely on past experiences, which isn't always appropriate. Would it help if the boundaries were clearly stated to you?