I've found a lot on this but mostly from pregnant women and Im not so I thought Id try here. I have sex dreams frequently to the point if its not a nightmare (also frequent) that its a sex dream. I don't think my waking sexual activity has anything to do with it since regardless of if I'm having sex or not I still have them. The problem is my dreams are the only time I ever seem interested in sex. As soon as I wake up I feel nothing whatsoever except a pang of unease because I wish I felt that way in my waking life. Well not exactly because my dreams are a bit much. I have them about anyone regardless of gender regardless of if I know them or not and last night I had a very vivid one about hunting down a vibrator asap which is odd since I very much dislike those. They have never appealed to me. Neither has masterbation in general. I have seen doctors about my lack of sex drive since I was 18.. I'm 23 now and married to a man with a very high sex drive. We have sex (though not lately.. he is away) often I just don't particularly enjoy it. My favorite part of sex is his climax. Sad? Probably. I've just never reached orgasm before (at least I don't think so. I've had tingly sensations after in different parts of my body, like my face.. I feel stupid typing that but it has happened during/after sex a few times possibly from blood flow) I just don't know what I need to let y'all know for an accurate response. I will answer any questions anyone may have. I'm very confused about this.