Not to scare you but check this out....I knew someone that had his girl friend at his house and would pretend he was working while chatting online with other women, while she was in the same room. I don't believe all people are sneaky liars but just be careful. Its hard....I always manage to trust the wrong people and shut out the right people... I have a man in my life and I love him very much, the idea of living without is suffocating. I've asked myself, if we split, wld I try looking online ? Probably give it a small chance and then run away...let me know ur findings.