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Originally Posted by BonnieG2010
there is nothing so complicated as human relationships.
i'd say that it can be healthy that husband and wife do not know everything about one another, but only the important things.
i have no idea what you husband says to his friend, but as long as it works i wouldn't try to open that up, in case it would break.
you might want to let him know that you are there for him and that you'd love to support him in any way, tho stating clearly that abusive behaviors are nor acceptable. never.
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He opened up to these friends about the way he feels about our son's autism. To me that is a big issue that should stay between husband and wife, even if you two are not on the same page when it comes to grieving. But I will try letting him know that I am there for him, and hopefully it will help, even if he chooses not to open up.