I already knew what men say...I've read and heard from men on this topic since I was a kid. Nevertheless, that doesn't make it right, and women shouldn't let "what men do" decide their self-worth based on their own behaviors. It's wrong for men and women to think a woman is less, or a slut, because she engages in sexual activity "too early" (which is defined by each individual), especially when they're not judging men the same way. If you sleep with a man on the first date--and I'm not saying that's a good idea--and the man rejects you, you shouldn't judge yourself harshly because of what he does. Some people are cruel and judge people wrongly.