A re evaluation from another doctor would be beneficial. When you put him in a sport or activity make it a rule that if he joins he attends, follows throu and completes it. Maybe he can join an art class . Students and teachers in that area are very open. He may be focusing on his toys because it is what he has control over. This will subside as ohe feels more comfortable with his life, but I recommend counselling or a small group he can join for support. Even if its a church group but a local mental health group would seem best. There might be support groups for parents ltrying to diagnose or figure out their childs behaviors, that you can join.

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