It disturbs me of late the media in the UK bashing men who watch extreme or violent porn, almost suggesting that those who do watch violent porn or are in rough violent sex must be seriously perverted or be a potential rapist. The majority of men who watch extreme violent porn will never rape anyone or hurt anyone, a fetish for extreme sexual wants or acting out sexual violence with your partner is not a crime and if the woman is ok with this behaviour and she may enjoy it too, then why do all men get labelled as perverts?? If a woman writes erotica it is just her desires, yet if a man writes violent erotica he must be a total woman hater or perv?? Please, what a load of crap.