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Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
They don't like it when you exhibit any kind of masculine personality trait or wear more masculine things. It doesn't matter how good you look or comfortable you are, not identifying your gender as 100% female 100% of the time is apparently just going to be unattractive.
Also, being too smart is a detriment. Not all guys like airheads, but they don't like it when you're smarter than them or know more than them about a "guy" subject, like football or cars or something.
But then, if I were to go exclusively by my own experience, I'm ugly to men. So just be the complete opposite of me. And if you're like me, don't be yourself. I just wish it were that simple.
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I don't think all that is true. I live in a state that values getting outside and exercising. It's important to a lot of people that their partner keep up because that is what they want to do. I had a female friend that is very tall, masculine and athletic. She wants a guy that will keep up with her! And she finds them.
I grew up in a state that values education and the arts. You've got tons of brilliant minds. Even education snobs. Actually I don't know that they are all that smart
I work in a industry that demands smart people. Some guys do get intimidated but definitely not all. You need to find the "not all".
I will agree that most guys are more open to taking to women with form fitting clothing. My friend follows this. It doesn't have to be terribly feminine though. Just look at most of the clothes at REI. This is a pretty easy fix and you don't have to loose your personality in the process. Your hair should suit you but any length will do.
I've said this to you before... I really think you are in the wrong city or state. I say this not even knowing where you live.
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