Hmm...I find Persian men sexy

Seriously, stop fretting so much about it. If it's meant to be, it's meant to be. In the meantime, come up with a line to feed to everyone who pressures you to settle down with one wife and feed that line consistently without fail, and people will get bored and refocus their attention onto something more entertaining.

- oh yeah, I so plan to get married, right after I defend my PhD dissertation, climb mt Everest, sail around the globe, serve in the army, volunteer for the Peace Corps - immediately after. Of course I will invite you to my my wedding - how could you possibly doubt that? !