I know this may sound like dumb advice, but find something to keep your mind busy. Spend time with friends or get involved in some sort of project, whatever keeps you distracted from your pain until your heart has time to heal. I know it's hard to do, but the more you dwell on your pain, the worse it hurts. I know because I tend to let my mind obsess over things that hurt me & the wounds never heal when I do! I'm sorry for what you are going through!