Oh, yes, I love that feeling! My husband does that, makes "unexpected" comments and responses like that. I still remember nearly 10 years ago when I had a nightmare and woke screaming and literally woke him up, both with my screams and from shaking him (my dream was about my killing him accidentally because I'd been careless and I was shaking him to make sure he was alive since I wasn't very awake :-) and it was very early on a Saturday morning and he couldn't get back to sleep but I couldn't stay awake, it was so early. When I finally got up a couple hours later, I went and apologized profusely to him for having awakened/disturbed his sleep and he said, extremely caringly, "Oh, no! I feel bad for you, I'm so sorry you had such a horrible dream that it affected you that way." I was only expecting an "acceptance" of my apology