But to the OP it's new.

I know some suggest it's "offensive" to talk about lifestyle changes, because some may get offended.... but I would never be where I am, if I haven't been suggested some things.

If everything has been said, then what is point of online forums? We are probably not coming up with any Nobel prize material here.... but so what? It's not like you suggest something brand new every new post.

OP asked for suggestions, so people gave her the said suggestions. Nothing wrong with that.