Quote:
Originally Posted by I.Am.The.End.
They don't like it when you exhibit any kind of masculine personality trait or wear more masculine things. It doesn't matter how good you look or comfortable you are, not identifying your gender as 100% female 100% of the time is apparently just going to be unattractive.
Also, being too smart is a detriment. Not all guys like airheads, but they don't like it when you're smarter than them or know more than them about a "guy" subject, like football or cars or something.
But then, if I were to go exclusively by my own experience, I'm ugly to men. So just be the complete opposite of me. And if you're like me, don't be yourself. I just wish it were that simple.
|
Aww, IATE.
What a post, girl. I have to admit, I am guilty of being pretty tomboyish and rugged. I think being who you are is important. You are beautiful just the way you are! We all are, even the men who only go for the "Barbie-esque" women and the Barbie chicks and all points in between. We are all beautiful. I feel so bad for making this post, I didn't mean to upset anyone...I was just having a crappy day. Maybe you are too. You're perfect just as you are as long as YOU are content with who you are.
You know, I am trying so, so SO hard to move past 'disliking' men now. My feelings aren't their fault. 9/10, I know neither of us wants attention from some superficial you know what, so let them get in where they fit in. More power to them. I went through this phase where I was convinced that I had to pull out all the stops, bells and whistles for one to give me the time of day. I realized it simply wasn't me. It's not who I am, outside or inside. And that's ok. If a man sees me and he does not like what he sees...he can look over there! Or at that tree. Maybe he will be lucky and the tree will have a naked woman in it that appeals to him. Yay! Everyone wins.
It's been a long time coming, but now I am starting to understand that I set the parameters for 'me'. I think I can deal with being celibate for the rest of my life once I become unhitched. A man will have to be quite a special somebody to earn a spot in my life after all I have endured. I think my mind was getting the best of me the day I posted the OP. Now, I say screw em all. I look in the mirror and see a person that I love and that is enough. Look at what most men go ga-ga over...I know I can't compete with computer generated illusions, so I don't even try.
I hope you feel better today and all days.
