I'm curious why, at 16, you mention your memory is bad? Ever had one of those memory, IQ tests, in school? Might be something to address with your pediatrician, next wellness check up.
Sorry, to read, you suspect your mom, may have hidden it. Any correlation to your panic stricken moments?

Hope you find the answers you are looking for. Unfortunately, PC isn't the place for a diagnosis, just people helping people, or patients/clients helping each other(depending on how you view it)
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