I have been with the same man since 2004. We met and several months after meeting My husband would try to start controlling everywhere I went, what i wear, where I am at a certain time. He would call me so many times on my way homefrom work and I would get so aggrevated. It was not until recently I discovered he had been dianosed with Bi=Polar Disorder,. I am actually afraid of him sometimes. He has kicked me in the back out of our bed because he did not like an answer I gave him. He sort of lives in his own fantasy world escaping from what is real and in denial of something being wrong with our relationship. When I made this discovery he was in full denial tha anything was wrong with him that it was always me. He always plays the victim and moreoften he is his own worst enenmy. I have asked him to get help several time and again denial. What should I do or suggest for him to do that I have not already suggested...