You have good values. The kind of control that your husband is using is scary. Are your children with you? Please make sure that you and they are safe. Have a safety plan, and know where you would go if your husband gets to be out of control. I don't know if the way that he is might be typical in your country, but there is support available here. We still have men who act that way, but we know that women have rights. I was afraid that there was a problem with how he treats you from your first post in this thread. There are women's shelters and other help available if it gets to a point where you need to get out or need things to change.

I stayed with my ex-husband until he finally threw me out, because I wanted my children to have a whole family and because I believe in marriage - it is very important in my religion. I don't regret the divorce, although it wasn't easy.