A woman messaged me on Facebook regarding my boyfriend (we are in a LDR he lives in the UK now). She had done an image search and said she had been chatting with him on a dating/social site and wanted to make sure he was a real person and wasn't married. She said that we she saw our "in a relationship status" that upset her because he led her to believe she was the only woman he was talking to. Once I replied, we started exchanging emails and she snipped the last few messaging sessions they had and I was floored! They were so sexually explicit I nearly vomited as I thought those were things he only told me. She then told me they had been Skyping/web cam and again I was so deeply hurt. It bothered me so much that finally, after weeks of contemplation, I confronted him. He deleted his profile right then and there and sent me a screenshot of his skype friends. So I gave him another chance and then anytime he would say he tried calling me or skyping me he felt the need to prove it by sending a snip of it to me. YES! cybersex is totally cheating!!! It is the ultimate in betrayal because you have no idea what they are sharing with the other people and how attached emotionally they become which always leads to physical infidelity.