Gr3tta: I'm sorry that you are upset. I don't think anyone on here sees you as a joke. I know I certainly don't. I reread these posts twice and I really think Sometimes was trying to be helpful but I think that some of her words could have been misunderstood. I know it can be hard knowing what to say in a post. I have said things before that got interrupted wrong when I really meant it to be helpful. I hope that you know that you can post anything you want here on Roll Call. Many times I don't have helpful advice but I do read all the posts and I offer hugs. When I don't know how to help a hug is all I can give. Hang in there