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Originally Posted by RichardBrooks
Yeah, there's a ton of misunderstandings about BDSM. I get the other side of it. Because I'm a Dom I'm supposed to be a psychopath, or a violent person, or I should also have a dominant personality outside the relationship. What people don't see or understand is the level of trust and communication that goes into it, the deep focus and attentiveness it takes to know how far to push a soft limit, and the tenderness it takes to tie someone to a post and know that the restraints will hold them but not cut off circulation for the duration of the scene.
Kink is not abuse. It's not torture. Vanillas will never get it, so **** 'em.
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Exactly! I never looked at it from the stigmas on the Dom side. My man and I have amazing trust and such honest communication. Also, he can be the most tender person ever. Soooo romantic but also strong and powerful when I need it. I've never been loved more deeply....sharing a fetish is a very deep personal bond between two people and I just really dislike how it is twisted and looked down upon by "vanillas". But there will always be those who judge. your right. **** 'em
i just had to vent the other day because once again had told somebody i was a submissive and got the abuse ?
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