Doesn't sound like his heart is really yours. If you are coming out of an abusive marriage, that isn't even finalized, stands to reason, it was positive attention, although from someone playing two women.
You mentioned he wants to move out of state. Will your soon to be ex, give you permission to move the children, are you willing to move without your children or are you willing to shell out, upwards to $15k to $25k, for a court trial for rights to remove your children with you?

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