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Originally Posted by kala83
the thing that ends up bein bothersome to me and too people around me is that I distance myself from people a lot...and they end up kind of getting feed up with it from me.....
to some degree I just don't feel like I can help it at times
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Same, I sometimes lose track of how long I've not seen someone. It isn't because I don't like them or don't care; I just can only take so much of interaction because it taxes me.
The guy I wanted to date told me "I got tired of waiting for you" and is dating someone else.
We're friends still, but apparently I didn't talk to him for about a year or two.
In college, it was a thing to "find his hiding spots".
Just kindly explain that you need time away. Respond with texts, etc. If they can't understand, then you may not want to be friends with them.