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Old Feb 09, 2014, 05:36 PM
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Originally Posted by torbleh View Post
I told my girlfriend, because she just had to know to understamd
... I'm suddenly angry/sad or something.

Now, every time when we argue (which is not too often... but enough) she's complaining about I stole her nights and so on. That hurts a lot!

And then again, she complains about I'm stealing her time. I'm just trying to tell her what's wrong but she doesn't give a sh...


You know, I really love her, but our relationship is a bit complicated now...
I don't want to loose her!
Explaining depression, as the reason for your sudden angry outbursts, to a girl/woman, can lead them to feel that you are, 'stealing', their time away from them.
You mention, 'needing alot of attention.', and have expressed frustration because she just doesn't understand? It's[depression], no excuse to argue. She's not, ever, going to feel what you feel.

You've dropped counseling. You are also, a minor, and depression, may be as far, right now, as diagnostic material goes.

It seems to me, a roller coaster, already. She may need, a lot more reading material, than just depression alone, to comprehend your behavior.

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