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Old Feb 09, 2014, 07:50 PM
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Originally Posted by youlleatamuffin View Post
Does anyone else have a deep manifest need to be really understood for who they are as a person?

None of my friends, although they care for me, can truly relate to my experience and it depresses the hell out of me. Anyone else have this?
i think of it like this:

the self needs to be actualized by another person's recognition of them. it isn't something we can do for ourselves. that "know thyself" thing can only go so far. there has to be somebody else who knows who you are. if nobody else knows you, your authentic self, it is sort of like not existing at all. and i think sometimes even the self can't know until somebody else validates and confirms us. realization. actualization. that's justice. it's justice because the only thing that ever feels right is actualization of authentic self. without that, everything feels wrong. even if we learn to cope with that sort of discontent, we still keep needing that actualization.

ya, i've rambled. i hope you understand what i'm saying. or i hope i haven't made it confusing.
Thanks for this!
youlleatamuffin