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Originally Posted by Cocosurviving
I understand abt no frds. I lost basically all of mine once they learned I had BP. I was the black sheep. Ppl I had worked closely with on professional committees for yrs. They stopped calling me and would sometimes barely speak to me. The three ppl that continued to associate with me I believe it was because of their profession. They were social workers like me. All the others are "so-call" Christians. They attend church regularly and I have attended church with a few of them. We traveled together, attended sported events and enjoyed night life together. Then when I really needed them they turned their backs on me. I've since moved out of state and it's been less than a yr. I did not change my phone number or email yet I have not heard from not one. I mailed out Christmas cards to them and did not receive any back in return. I have since made one new frd. She does not have BP but she has a close family mbr that does. That person use to live with her she has first hand and up close experience with BP
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Those people who stopped talking to you because you're BP are horrible people, and they are small minded and I am sorry that they treated you like that. If someone takes the time to mail me a Christmas card, I always reply back to them somehow, it's just the decent thing to do. I say, forget about them, let them be a shadow of a memory past, and do not let them hold any power over you here in the present. It seems like your new friend is more sensitive to your BP-which is what you need. I hope it works out.