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Originally Posted by healingme4me
Doesn't sound like his heart is really yours. If you are coming out of an abusive marriage, that isn't even finalized, stands to reason, it was positive attention, although from someone playing two women.
You mentioned he wants to move out of state. Will your soon to be ex, give you permission to move the children, are you willing to move without your children or are you willing to shell out, upwards to $15k to $25k, for a court trial for rights to remove your children with you?
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Thank you, Healingme4me.
I have already made the move. I left my kids behind to stay with their dad. I needed time to get things ready before bringing them. My husband gave me permission to take them out of state. But we haven't figured out how we'll arrange visitation. I was surprised he let me take them. It makes me wonder whether he's setting me up. I've read alot about how abusive spouses will put the parent in jail for taking the kids out of state. I'm also afraid the court won't see my decision to move to be in our kids best interests. This is a mess. I think leaving gave me a new perspective.