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Old Feb 10, 2014, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Michanne View Post
I NEED to be heard. If they don't understand me and they care to they can at least tell me so. I feel completely discarded when they don't take time to hear me. It's definitely related to how I was raised.

I was in a t group where most of them wouldn't hear me no matter what including the t. Man I had a bad dream last night where the t called me up and tried to convince me I was wrong about all this stuff. (My regular t doesn't think I was always wrong. Everybody is wrong sometimes). I was all stress about having the will to hang up the phone. I think I was transferring from another recent experience. It's probably relevant how unprofessional that is. Ok 'nother topic

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I can relate. I think a lot of my deeper need to be understood by friends, stems from the fact that my family absolutely do not.