Use that energy to make a difference in the world. Advocate for abused children. When you see a child being abused speak quietly to the parent....in other word.s...use empathy;.....I know how difficult kids can be, etc..... Attacking the abusive parent will only cause them to abuse the child more, maybe and definitely tell you to butt out and that is not what you want. Volunteer at a shelter.....look for resources to use what you know and USE it to help others being abused.....Don't ever be silent when you see abuse; it is ALL of our responsibilities to speak up. Verbal abuse alone can change the brain physically; I have written a paper on the subject of verbal abuse if interested. Hugs, Nicole