[QUOTE=Mtfbwy72;3571931]If I tell people I am a submissive I immediately get the question were you ever abused.QUOTE]

How rude! How could anyone ask anyone upfront about such a sensitive topic, worse still that they will link your fetish to it. When will we separate ourselves from our sexuality and realize there is more to an individual than their preferences and that those are not as stereotypical as they would like? We hurt each other with our insensitivities and fear of difference; love is love and we all do it differently.