So I could understand if she were coming from a position of wanting to help me get over my phobia... but instead she takes it as a personal insult and has made it her mission to make me as uncomfortable as possible.

I have a phobia of being touched and every time I'm around her she makes it into an exposure (I haven't really talked about my phobias with any therapists so she is doing this out of nowhere).

Then when I react she questions me and gets mad at me for "making [her] feel like a pervert"...

She doesn't even think she's doing anything wrong....