Thank you for your advice. It is very difficult to watch her go through this. She is the one who has come to us crying as she was afraid. He keeps showing up at her door stop no matter what she says to him. They have had conversations in the hallway as she does not want him in. She is the one who has shown me and given me all the information. When she moved him in, we never said anything against him or the idea and basically stayed out of their life. When we would have a family event he somehow came up with excuses as to why he could not attend. I think she has such a big heart that she can't say go away. This evening she came for dinner and told us that she has asked him for some time to figure out what she wants. He feels that if he gives her time she will walk away from him. We suggested to her to make a list as to why she should stay with him (or give him another chance) and why she shouldn't stay with him and then make her decision from there. She when asked what his adoring characteristics are so cannot think of anything. Hopefully she will come to her sense and realize that she is a worthy person of someone who will adore her for her. Thanks for your advice.... (He won't be calling me anytime soon, he is a coward who only texts his nastiness.)