I have decided...reluctantly to post an update to this. A realization I have just recently had about this...
The music I mention playing in the background... The night she left I was listening to this music when she came home. I asked her to join me to listen and see why I enjoyed it. That was the beginning of the argument that ended our relationship.
I am going to post the other dreams that relate to her about once a week. I welcome any feedback...thanks