My parents were workaholics, abusive, cold distant and I was never shown any love or nurturing.
I have three ts, first one I fell in love with purely because she was so kind to me and I wasn't used to being listened to or cared for, next t not so much transference but she was younger. Third t, absolutely and she encouraged these feelings of transference by hugging me all the time. Encouraging reliance on her but the strange thing is I don't feel it as much for her because it feels false.

My tutor(who is a t) brought this up in class last week. Nobody else had feelings for their t so I stayed back after class to talk about it. She was so great and asked if I had feelings for her and we are hopefully going to work through this painful feelings!

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