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Originally Posted by murasakiotoko
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Yeah, I agree with everything you say. And the last one really hit me hard. I'm usually a shy person but I did everything in my power to please her, I probably did more than I normally could. I overcame mu shyness just to talk to her, I traveled between cities just to see her. Knowing that in the end all of that was for nothing really demoralized me. And I can't help but feel that if I did everything in my power and it didn't work, how can I believe that it will in the future? I guess I have no choice but to hope. I guess my problem has little to do with sexuality.
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I agree. It sounds like she just wasn't mature enough to appreciate what you were doing for her. As a matter of fact, it sounds to me like you did everything you felt you were "supposed to do" and when that didn't work out, it crushed you. Trust me, I know what it's like to do everything right and still "fail".
Believe me, you did great. There are a ton of women who just aren't ready for a man that will do everything they can to make their woman feel like a queen. For some reason, they seem to want a jerk, an "alpha male" if you will, that will keep them pinned down.
As I mentioned, maybe a little therapy is order to help you get your self-confidence back, then pull yourself up by your bootstraps and go get 'em!
