hi tiny
wow...I find it hard to believe the dv shelter is not getting you out of there...ours helps women out immediately. have you tried one in another area? our attys also help pro bono when dv is involved. this is ridiculous. your life is at stake. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome.