Some women are hunting for love, some aren't. I know women who have had sex on the first date or one-night stands with no regrets. Some have ended up in long-term relationships or even marriage with the guys they slept with early.

Having sex sooner or later in a relationship doesn't define one's self-esteem. Some women with very high self-esteem and sexual confidence don't feel the need to worry what others will think and enjoy sex on their own terms.

That said, most women who sleep with a guy right away are often seeking love or more commitment. At least, that's my experience in what I've seen and read. Those women should seek help in dealing with whatever it is that makes them feel the need to attach themselves to a man (or woman) so soon.

Why aren't men judged like this? If he sleeps with a woman who, according to many, has issues and needs a relationship, then isn't he lousy for taking advantage of such a person? And why isn't he a "slut" or suffering from low self-esteem? Why is his value not affected in society?