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Old Feb 11, 2014, 10:09 PM
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So I met this guy in October on (smartphone sort of dating app) and we quickly arranged to meet in person. He's really attractive, has a good job, makes me laugh - pretty cool guy, though he has some jerky qualities. Anyways, after meeting a few times we started sleeping together and texting daily. I'm in college, and when I went home for winter break, he texted me every day. It felt so good that someone thought of me. Every day. Even though things started out mostly sexual (no title) I started to think of him as a friend. He was the only person that texted me every day when I was home. I had the best sex of my life with him. Well he has been talking to me less and less - about every other day for the past two weeks and now not since Saturday. He always texts back and he snapchats me sometimes but I feel like he is starting to withdraw from me and I really want him to tell me why. He used to tell me that I was the only girl in his life and even let "love" slip out a couple times. I never said it back. I'm thinking of everything I might've done or said wrong... Then maybe there's just the three month thing or maybe he doesn't want me to expect anything on valentines day so he's ignoring me..... I don't want to seem clingy because we don't have a title and it's understood that we won't really be official, so I'm hesitant to ask straight up what I did wrong or to accuse him of withdrawing... I'm thinking asking "are you getting tired of me" might be a bad idea... But I don't want to annoy him either! If he wants to stop seeing me, I want to have a real conversation and hopefully have sex one more time. I just feel like I need closure.. Am I wrong to feel that way? How should I approach him? How much of my feelings should I share with him (how I feel like he is one of my best friends here and I hate the way things are ending and if he just wanted to sleep with me, he could've done that. We didn't need to hang out or text every day.) is it wrong to ask why, should I just let things run their course? I think about him constantly.
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