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Originally Posted by purplemystery
So even if your T has a no-touch policy
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I don't think she has a no-touch policy. I could be remembering this wrong, but I think she actually described herself as a "touchy-feely" person a couple years ago... but I still feel weird asking!
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Originally Posted by withoutthelove_
I, for example, flinch and/or tense up whenever someone touches me. I feel like taking a leaf out of your book, Focus, and asking my own T for some kind of contact - a hug, pat on the shoulder, etc.
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I do the same thing when people touch me. I am a college student and I have some professors that move around the room when they lecture and I always wind up getting a hand rested on my shoulder for some reason. It's like they seek me out or something. I hate it!! I think I finally found a seat in one of my classes though that he never goes near
. More power to you if you ask for a hug
. I want to ask for just a finger or two for a second...I can't even imagine a hug.
Anybody else ever asked a T for something weird like this?