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Old Feb 12, 2014, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Focus62 View Post
Childhood Sexual Abuse is CSA.

I want to ask but...I'm worried she won't say it's okay and then it's just going to be awkward, I guess. I wish I knew someone that had done this before.
Trigger for scars/CSA? IDK...

Yeah, I got a lot of scars too on my body and legs- same reason (hands were mine place). When hospitalized in my teens for SUI I got a doc who asked me if she could touch them. I said no way, felt really weird. I myself hate to touch them even accidentally- you know how numb they feel from the nerve damage? I guess she was trying to emphasize... so maybe it does happen? Sorry, that's the best I can offer. I don't know personally anybody who did it.
Try to ask for what you think might help.
Thanks for this!
Focus62