Ok so i've met a lovely lady on a dating site and we email, phone and skype and we seem to tick each others boxes. We haven't met yet . She lives in Scotland ( but is originally from my area) and i'm in the south if England ( near London). She wants to come back down south, She has a lot of family down south. Anyway, we will meet soon . Either i will go up to Scotland or she will come down and i'm sure sex will be on the agenda if not at the first meeting definately shortly after. But and i've got a big BUTT. I cum but i don't get hard. Well not very hard. I mean you couldn't hammer a nail in with it. Ok guys ( and girls ) tell me what you've used, what works, what doesn't. Anything you think might help. I'm sure she would be very understanding ( she's a lovely lady) but well....