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Old Feb 12, 2014, 12:45 PM
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Originally Posted by jimi... View Post
For you who are feelers instead of thinkers, do you mainly get the score from empathizing (I sortof hate the question if I feel involved in soaps, I mean... those are so boring... why not ask if feeling involved in a good movie? LOL), or do you get it mainly from letting emotions guide your actions?
I don't really know much about this (still learning) but my scores are like 50/40 (feel/think). I know I do empathize with people greatly; I used to be the kind of person who cries when other people cry. T also has told me that she has to give it to me that I'm very nonjudgmental (not that I never judge) but in generally any situation, regardless of depth I try to think about what the other person must be thinking and feeling (sometimes to an unhealthy extent) before I allow my own self to react. On the other hand, she has also said that I am an extensive thinker and an extensive feeler and I haven't learned how to mix the two (I feel strongly without knowing the cause of my feelings, and I think without feeling for fear of feeling too much or feeling incorrectly). I don't know if this helps or even makes sense.
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